Coach’s Corner is a weekly column where local coaches share practical advice, personal insights, and valuable lessons from the world of youth and high school sports. Whether you’re a coach looking to lead better, a parent supporting from the sidelines, or a player working to grow on and off the field, Coach’s Corner offers guidance, encouragement, and real-world experience to help you navigate the game—and life—with purpose.
Carson Kalama – Offensive Assistant Coach at Harford Community College
Carson Kalama, a 2X Division III National Champion and 3X All-American from Salisbury University, is an Offensive Assistant Coach for the powerhouse Harford Community College Men’s Lacrosse team. Since joining in 2022, he has helped lead the Fighting Owls to 3 NJCAA. Championships with a dominant 48-3 record, leveraging his elite playing background to foster a championship culture.
Advice to Other Coaches
- Surround yourself with other great Coaches – Success is a team effort. Always strive to be learning from, challenging, and collaborating with mentors and peers to development and creates a better environment for players.
- Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome – Winning is the result of daily, high-quality habits. Focusing on practice intensity, discipline, and attention to detail makes winning inevitable.
Advice to Parents
- Let the Coaches coach – Allow coaches to guide, teach, and hold players accountable for their performance. Parental interference often causes confusion and affects the player-coach relationship.
- Support the whole team – Promote a positive environment by supporting every team member, not just your child. A team-first attitude fosters a more competitive, and enjoyable atmosphere for everyone.
Advice to Players
- It is Cool to Care!
- Be Coachable – Embrace feedback, constructive criticism, and new techniques. A player who is willing to learn is more valuable than a talented player who is stubborn.
- You best Ability is your Availability – Talent does not matter if you cannot get on the field. Prioritize fitness, injury prevention, nutrition, and recovery to ensure you are always ready to compete.
Come out to support the 2026 Harford Men’s lacrosse team for Championship Weekend, May 9th – 10th @ Harford Community College. The community is invited to witness top-tier lacrosse and support the Fighting Owls as they fight for another title on their home field.